The Calm Love Podcast

#26: Should You Break Up? 12 Questions to Help You Decide

Deciding whether to stay or leave a relationship is one of the hardest choices we face. In this episode, Jennily shares 12 thoughtful questions designed to help you gain clarity and compassion for yourself.
When you’re emotionally invested in a relationship, attachment insecurities can cloud your judgment, making it hard to tell if your doubts come from fear or real issues. Whether you’ve been together a year or many, Jennily guides you in exploring what’s really going on—helping you see if the relationship can grow or if it’s time to move on.
If you’re feeling stuck or unsure, this episode offers practical tools to help you feel more grounded in your next step.
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#25: Rupture & Repair: How to Reconnect After Conflict

Every relationship goes through ups and downs — it’s normal to have moments of disconnection or conflict. What matters most is how you repair and reconnect afterward. In this episode, Jennily breaks down how the three insecure attachment styles usually handle these tough moments and why some repair attempts often backfire. Then, she shares practical baby steps to help you move through the cycle of rupture and repair in a more secure, grounded way — strengthening your bond and getting you back on track.
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#24: Compromise or Self-Betrayal? How to Tell the Difference in Love

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your partner wondering if you made a healthy compromise—or if you just abandoned yourself to keep the peace? In this episode, Jennily breaks down the difference between honoring your relationship and losing your voice. She shares how insecure attachment styles often keep silent, how to recognize when self-betrayal is happening, and offers practical steps to honor your needs without guilt.
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#23: How to Navigate Conflict in a Secure, Calm Way

What if there was a way to navigate conflict without it spiraling? In this episode, Jennily shares how to move through relationship conflict in a secure, calm way. You’ll learn simple, attachment-informed tools to prevent fights from starting, calm things down when tension is rising, and communicate with your partner in ways that feel safe, clear, and connected. Most of us were never taught how to do this—but learning these tools can completely shift your relationship.
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#22: Why Do We Keep Fighting? (6 Reasons You Might Not Expect)

Do you ever wonder why you and your partner keep fighting over the same things, even when you’re trying your best? It’s easy to think it’s just a communication issue or a difference of opinions — but the real reasons often run much deeper. In this episode, Jennily breaks down six root causes of conflict, many of which are tied to your attachment style and subconscious patterns. By the end, you’ll have a clearer understanding of what’s really fueling your arguments — and how to start addressing them differently.  
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#21: The 6 Stages of a Relationship

You’ve probably heard of the honeymoon stage—but what about the power struggle stage, or the bliss stage? In this episode, Jennily walks you through the 6 key stages of a relationship, blending insights from attachment theory to help you understand where you are and what’s ahead. Whether you’re navigating early chemistry or long-term connection, this episode offers a clear and compassionate roadmap to how secure couples grow and evolve over time.For more on 1:1 coaching with Jennily, visit jennilydiaz.com Schedule a free discovery call by contacting hello@jennilydiaz.comConnect with Jennily on Instagram: instagram.com/calmlovejennily
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#20: When & How to Define the Relationship

Thinking about defining the relationship but not sure how—or when—to bring it up? In this episode, Jennily breaks down the signs it’s the right time, how your attachment style can shape the conversation, and gives you simple, no-pressure scripts to make the talk feel more natural and less overwhelming. This one’s for anyone tired of the “situationship” limbo.
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# 19: The First 3 Months of Dating: 7 Essential Dos & Don’ts

The first three months of dating can bring excitement, uncertainty, and everything in between. However, with the right approach, you can break old habits and build new, secure ones. In this episode, Jennily shares her best dating advice as a relationship coach with 7 essential dos and don’ts—rooted in attachment theory—to help you navigate this crucial stage with more confidence and ease. Whether you tend to overthink or just want to start off on the right foot, this episode will give you the tools to build a healthy connection from the start.
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#18: 7 Tips to Survive & Thrive in a Long Distance Relationship

Have you ever wondered if you're truly cut out for a long-distance relationship? Whether you're a few hours apart or living on opposite sides of the world, staying connected is absolutely possible—no matter your attachment style. In this episode, Jennily shares the 7 go-to strategies she currently uses to keep her long-distance relationship strong, healthy, and fulfilling. You'll learn how to not only survive but thrive—and even discover some unexpected benefits of loving from afar.
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#17: Guided Meditation for a Calm Night’s Sleep

Struggling to turn off your brain at night? In this episode, Jennily leads a simple sleep meditation designed to help you release tension and calm your mind. Using box breathing and grounding exercises, this practice aims to ease racing thoughts and relax your body for a smoother transition into sleep.
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